Sunday, May 2, 2010

I witnessed a miracle

So now that my sister has posted her version of her baby's birth, I will now share mine. I feel so blessed that I could watch this amazing event take place. This was the first birth besides my own childrens' that I've personally watched. It helped me decide that I really do want to be a doula someday. I could watch babies be born every day. Anyway, Katie was absolutely amazing and I'm so grateful she invited me along.

Thursday morning, Katie called to say she had been admitted to the hospital. I finished up an errand to Target, dropped off my girls at my parents' house, and booked it (I had gotten a text en route that they had broken her water) to the hospital. She was sitting on the bed, uncomfortable through contractions about 4-5 min apart. She was dilated to about a 4 if I remember correctly.

We decided that she should try the birth ball, so she situated herself thereon and Ryan and I jumped to position for each contraction. I massaged her back, and Ryan held her hand and helped her breathe. We reminded her to relax all different parts of her body and she was doing awesome. Pretty soon the contractions were coming about 2 min apart and they were pretty big (according to the monitor). After a while of this she decided to get checked. She was disappointed to find that she was still at a 5, so decided that would be a good time to get an epidural (this was about 12pm).
I came back after her epi had been administered to find her resting on the bed, almost asleep. I got on her laptop and Ryan went to get some sushi for lunch. He brought it back and showed me how to eat it (I've never had it). Katie was having some pain/pressure in her bum (prob the baby's head) so she and I were watching HGTV to distract her. Her doctor came in around 1:15 and checked Katie. She sort of ignored him since we were so deeply involved in the real estate show we had on.
Dr. H looked up and said, "shall we have a baby?" Katie said, "sure." Dr H: "You're complete. I'll go get a nurse." I jumped up, closed the laptop, grabbed my camera and turned off the TV while Katie and Ryan looked at me sort of confused-like. Katie: "Wait...how far dilated am I?" Dr H (walking out of the room): "You're complete." Me: "Katie, that's a ten! You're ready to push!"
It was hilarious. We all looked at each other and giggled nervously and excitedly, and Ryan quickly put away his lunch stuff. In less than an hour and a half she had gone from a 5 to a 10! It was amazing and so unexpected that Katie was a little overwhelmed by the thought that she was ready to push out her baby and meet him.
Ryan comforted her and helped her visualize her special bundle that was about to make his entrance.
So she pushed for half an hour.... (isn't this the best pushing shot?)
And little Tommy was born!
I know I keep saying how amazing it was, but seriously, it was incredible. I watched Katie go from an unsure pregnant woman in labor to a strong woman who knew she wanted to be a mother and she was going to bring her baby into this world.

The happy family.

Tommy meeting his grandparents for the first time-both sets were there.
My dad and his little namesake. I can see that they will have a special bond.
Tommy is the most perfect little baby ever. I have to say he ranks right up there with my babies in cuteness (every baby is the most beautiful baby on earth to his own mother as we all know). You can see a few of the newborn shots I took of him here.
And I have to say...watching a baby be born makes me want another one! hee hee....



Catching up via cell phone pics

A few of our recent adventures: Natalie is taking a little dance class through the town of Gilbert. Their little "show" will be this Wed. Watch for better pics!


The girls playing in our compost container before we started the compost. We have since quit composting. It was a short composting attempt.

Natalie modeling the latest fashion for today's teen at Forever 21.

This was months ago, but the girls both love this princess doll display at Target that plays clips of their songs. We spend lots of time at Target, can you tell?

Proof that the girls really can play happily together. This is happening more and more.

Took the girls to Kid's Club in the mall after not going for about a year or more. My kids are overstimulated easily. Large mall+tons of noisy kids+loud music+big scary prairie dog character=major overstimulation. But once in a while is fun. They let you ride the carousel for free which the girls really enjoyed.


A few weeks ago Natalie got really sick and was throwing up every half hour or so. She would immediately vomit any ice chips or sips of water or pedialyte we tried to give her. I took her to the ER that afternoon to be hydrated through an IV and after about 30min of it was back to her old self. It was amazing. Poor baby, she was so listless and weak she didn't even make a peep when they stuck her with the needle.



She loved the popsicle, can you tell?



Her little arm with the iv.




A cheap and fun activity: make a valcano with baking soda, vinegar, and food coloring. This kept us occupied for a loooooong time.
TTFN!!




Friday, April 16, 2010

My new love

Announcing the birth of Thomas Michael Lorsch!!
April 15th, 2010
8lbs 12oz
Proud parents are Katie and Ryan Lorsch


He is the most precious little thing. Katie let me attend the birth which was my first birth besides my own kids'. It was amazing. A good reminder of the miracle of life. I am just in love with this little squish and can't wait to watch him grow up.

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Natalie's note

Natalie wrote a pretend note and gave it to me. I asked her what it said, and she said,
"I love the Spirit of the Holy Ghost speaking in the heart of the love."

Saturday, April 3, 2010

New hair

Mine, that is. Got it cut super short and I love it!!

And btw, I painted over some of the green in my downstairs area. The new color can be seen under the microwave...sort of a tan/beige/neutral color. The green you see there is no longer. I did keep one green wall though, never fear.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Bedtime with Natalie


Natalie: Mommy, how many more days will there be?


Me: Lots and lots, till you're old and a grandma.


Natalie: Will I die?


Me: Yep. Everyone dies. (no sugar coating here)


Natalie: (getting sad) But Mommy, will I get nails in my hands and feet? It will hurt!


So sweet! She thought the only way to die was how Jesus did. I took the opportunity to set her straight and she was put at ease. Just love that girl.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Our Zoo Adventure

I want to write this down before I forget! This zoo day was probably the most hectic/chaotic/stressful-yet-funny day of my parenting life so far. Luckily I was laughing most of the time.


We got major discounted tickets to the zoo through a friend's preschool. We met up with some friends and started walking around, looking at animals. It was chilly and cloudy but not too bad (better than being hot!). Natalie was a major grump and whined all morning, despite the cool animals and snacks aplenty. I was pushing her in the stroller while balancing Hannah on top by the handles. Thankfully my stroller has a one-handed push handle thingy.

After a while it started to sprinkle. Of course I had left the umbrellas in the car by accident, so we just put our hoods on and walked a little faster to each exhibit. Then it started raining harder. My friends and I decided now would be the perfect time to ride the train around the zoo since it's covered and we could stay dry while seeing other animals we hadn't seen yet. We all ran through the mud to the train and hopped on. The girls and I sat on the front row of one of the cars where the bench was already wet. Lovely.
(As we boarded the train, a little damp but still fairly happy)
I quickly realized that this was not the best place we could have sat. Every time we went downhill or the driver put on the breaks, all the water that was accumulating on the top of the train would pour over the edge right into our laps. The cold wind was blowing the water into our faces as well. Our hands were icy cold, red, and stiff. Our noses were running out of control with nothing dry to wipe them with. The diaper bag and backpack full of food that were sitting at our feet were completely soaked. Meanwhile the train would stop periodically in case people wanted to get on or off. Are you kidding me? The zoo is deserted! NOBODY WANTS TO GET OFF!! Hannah was crying hysterically standing on my lap facing all the people behind me. She wouldn't sit down so everyone got to witness her sad pathetic dripping face.Natalie was just sitting next to me, shivering.

We finally made it off the train and grabbed our soaking wet stroller and booked it towards the exit. Both kids were crying now. We passed a bathroom and I asked Natalie if she had to go. She said no and we walked for what seemed like forever to our car. When we got there it was still so windy and rainy that I didn't want to have the doors open for too long. I stuck both kids in the front passenger seat so they could at least be dry while I loaded the car. I turned it on to get the heat going. Loaded the stroller and bags, then put Hannah in her car seat. Then I put Natalie in hers and buckled her in. Girls are still screaming, mind you. Then I ran back to Hannah and buckled her. Meanwhile the Barbie movie started, so they were calming down to watch (thankfully I brought the dvd player this trip).


Natalie suddenly starts wiggling like crazy and says she has to go potty really bad and she's not going to make it! I didn't have any extra clothes, towels, or pullups with me. I only had Hannah diapers (itty bitty size 3) so I ran back around to Natalie's side, got in so I was stooped above her car seat, and closed the door (still cold and windy and rainy out). I had her stand in the middle seat, pulled her pants down, put the daiper between her legs, and she went. Sadly, the diaper got full quickly and began leaking down her legs and onto her clothes (and my hands...sorry TMI). Took off her pants, pulled up the wet underwear and had her sit on another diaper in her car seat. Thankfully the car was pretty warm by now.


I looked over at Hannah and saw her shivering and realized her jeans were soaked just like mine were. I ran around to her side, opened the door and pulled her out of the car to pull her jeans off. Poor baby, for a second she was out in the rain and cold with no pants on! I quickly buckled her back in and shut her door. I got in, handed snacks back to the girls, and drove home. Whew!


The whole time Elder Wirthlin's conference talk from a year or so ago was running through my head about how when bad things happen you can choose to cry or laugh. I chose to laugh. Really. I was giggling here and there at our situation and knew that it would soon be over. It was much easier to handle with a good attitude than if I chose to curl up into the fetal position and cry over it myself. Yay for promptings that come just at the right time.
I also learned something else: Have towels, blankets, extra change of clothes, and diapers and pullups in the car at all times. I had all those things in a bin in my room (in the middle of assembling an emer car kit) but of course didn't bring it along. It is now in my car.